I Was Looking Through My Boyfriends Pictures And I Found A Pic Of A Half Naked Girl?
i saw this picture of this half naked girl on my boyfriends phone. i asked him about it and he said she sent it to him so he could see if it was okay for her boyfriend, and we had a row. now he thinks its okay but its not, i cant stop thinking about it and i dont want to end it….and aswell hes never lied he always tells me the truth HELPPP
Tags: Boyfriends, Found, Girl, Half, Looking, Naked, Pictures, Through
September 14th, 2009 at 8:58 pm
Stay out of his stuff.
September 15th, 2009 at 3:41 am
You are right to be upset about it. Let’s say that hypothetically speaking he did truly only have the pic to “okay it for her boyfriend” (rolls eyes here). Does that explain why he should still have it? Tell him how you feel about it and then decide whether it’s something you can get past or not. Now my next question is were you looking through his phone for anything inparticular? If not then it may be that you’ve had reason before to not trust him and this isn’t exactly “out of the norm” for him.
September 15th, 2009 at 5:17 am
I think that he is telling you a story. I don’t really know your boyfriend or have any ideas what his intentions are but i do know that your boyfriend shouldn’t have a picture of a half naked girl on his phone. That is really disrespectful to you. I think you really need to talk to him and explain to him how it makes you feel. Good Luck
September 15th, 2009 at 5:50 am
He shouldn’t have the picture. Well that’s what I thought at first but now I kind of agree with PJ. I mean it’s bad of him but really you shouldn’t have been searching through his phone. All you can do is put your feelings across and hope he pays attention. If he is willing to see it from your point of view, it’s kind of over anyway. Although don’t jump to that extreme right away.
September 15th, 2009 at 8:48 am
Still he should realize that HE has a girlfriend and HE shouldnt be looking at that. That girl sounds like a skank. It’s her fault for sending it and his fault for going along with it and not telling you.
You need to tell him straight up that’s not what you do in a relationship and if you love me you would do the right thing next time oresle im gone. That is what i would say
AND TO ALL THE PEOPLE WHO SAID STAY OUT OF HIS PHONE…IF SHE WOULDNT OF LOOKED THEN HE WOULDNT OF EVER TOLD HER. THIS SAME THING HAPPENED WITH MY BOYFRIEND. YOU HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO LOOK IN HIS PHONE. YOUR NOT BEING CONTROLLING YOU JUST WANT TO KNOW? IT’S NOT BAD.
Good luck
September 15th, 2009 at 10:21 am
Firstly, you need to accept that you were at fault for the row.
What I suggest that you do is appologise for that. Then you can calmly explain that you don’t like that kind of behaviour and would appreciate it if he would avoid it in future. If you keep things calm and pleasant, then hopefully he will agree.
Please remember that your boyfreind isn’t a mind reader. Imposing rules on your relationship retrospectively, isn’t fair.
September 15th, 2009 at 12:45 pm
Where did women get the idea that boyfriends can’t look at naked pictures of other women. Exactly why does looking at naked pictures of other women disrespect your girlfriend? Pictures are pictures, girlfriend is a real person, don’t get the two mixed up! You can look but you can’t touch!
September 15th, 2009 at 4:13 pm
Many of the People of the Book wish out of sheer envy from their own selves that, after you have believed, they could turn you again into disbelievers after the truth has become manifest to them. But forgive and turn away from them, till Allah brings about His decree. Surely, Allah has the power to do all that He wills.
September 15th, 2009 at 8:20 pm
If he’s never lied before you should probably believe him. But if you’re not sure, you could just watch him for a while and see if he’s acting strange (signs of cheating).
September 15th, 2009 at 11:37 pm
Why are people saying stop snooping around?? I mean yeah, fair enough with texts, but pictures? Everyone goes through mine!
He shouldnt have that on his phne. And thats such a lame excuse he gave you. Hes been caught out. I mean, If he is telling the truth, it still doesnt mean he can have friends send him pictures like that.
September 16th, 2009 at 6:32 am
tell him how you feel about it, them put it behind you if you keep bringing it up its going don’t to seem like you don’t trust him and that’s going to lead to problems like a break up. So talk about it tell him how you feel have him tell you how he feels then put it behind the both of you.
September 16th, 2009 at 7:09 am
omg
that’s a lie
but let it go
act like it doesn’t bother you
but you know sum?
if it was just for her boyfriend..
why does he still have it in his phone?
if he had it there to look and give out his opinion
what the hell is it still doing there
question him like that
hope i helped.
(:
September 16th, 2009 at 9:59 am
awwwwwww hun this really sux…u shud talk to him abt it again…and where u said that he thinks this is ok…u shud tell him that u dont think its ok! and good for u for snooping thru his pix…and dont mind the dumb ***’s that tell u not to…if u didnt, u wud have nvr known abt this “friend”
September 16th, 2009 at 3:17 pm
She sent it for your boyfriend to look at, not to check if it was OK. He made up a lie so you wouldn’t be as mad. Talk to him about it and tell him that it’s bothering you. If he gets mad it most likely proves that he was lying in the first place. Good luck!
September 16th, 2009 at 7:01 pm
find out if that girl is a good mate with your boyfriend…she is the one you wanna find out bowt here but if hes tellin the truth it does make sense that she would send the pic to a good mate before her boyfriend to see if it looks good x
September 16th, 2009 at 7:02 pm
He can have what he wants on his phone.
Why are you looking through his phone anyway???
It’s his buisness and his privacy, respect it.
How would you like it if he looked through all your stuff.
Trust me i know people with alot worse than that.
September 17th, 2009 at 1:45 am
silly girl – all guys have pictures like that. Its normal. Please try to concentrate on more important things in life. If he treats you bad, or starts being inconsiderate OK, but wanting to spli up because of a picture? oh dear!
best wishes
ARTHUR
September 17th, 2009 at 8:33 am
you either need to forgive him or leave
i think this sounds like a time when, if you think you can, and you think hes genuinely sorry, you could forget
September 17th, 2009 at 12:22 pm
Wow. Yeah you need to talk to him again and tell him you don’t like him looking at other girls like that and if she did send it to him to see for her boyfriend he should have deleted it.
September 17th, 2009 at 5:56 pm
Well that is somewhat suspicious. Why would she send it to someone else’s boyfriend to see if it’s appropriate for hers? That’s just ridiculous.
Let him know how you feel.
September 17th, 2009 at 9:33 pm
“she sent it to him so he could see if it was okay for her boyfriend”
LOL love it ,that’s a good one, ill add that to my list of lame excuses
September 18th, 2009 at 1:20 am
Dont be a sucker. Of course hes telling a whopper! Would you send a naked picture of yourself to his friend for his approval before you send it to your boyfriend???? Theres one born every minute………..
September 18th, 2009 at 3:53 am
Send me the picture. I’ll help you decide.
Men are very visual. We love to look. Of course he’s lying.
And what were you doing looking at his cell phone? Just as bad if you ask me.
September 18th, 2009 at 8:51 am
What a terrible excuse.
You should intimidate him further until you find the real answer.
Or better yet, if you know this girl, ask her about it.
September 18th, 2009 at 12:38 pm
It depends on what half was naked.
Was it the left or right half because that would really be different.
If it was the top or bottom half then that is typical…
September 18th, 2009 at 4:49 pm
ask him if he has had any sexual contact with her and no offence but what he’s saying sounds like bullshit.
if he is with her then dump him.
September 18th, 2009 at 10:23 pm
So – mind your own business in the future and don’t snoop around looking at someone else pictures.
September 19th, 2009 at 5:10 am
Why where you looking threw his phone…
September 19th, 2009 at 5:59 am
Never stay with a guy like that…he doesn’t deserve a girl who is faithful.
Who do you love more…
him or yourself.
Think About It
September 19th, 2009 at 12:44 pm
hmmmmm………….yea u should stop thinking about ii. it might just be a coincidence or sumthing. at least u no hes not gay.
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