Seeing A Girl Naked For The First Time In College??!?!?
Whats it like. Im 18, and only have gotten to first base with girls (make outs) I have not found a girl im attracted to yet.
Once I do find a girl I love (if she is experienced) what will she think, especially since it will be my first time being in bed with a naked girl?
October 17th, 2009 at 6:30 pm
most girls would kill for a guy like that
October 17th, 2009 at 7:29 pm
Well first off, embarrassment is the worst feeling ever. If you are honest with the woman you end up having sex, or being naked with or whatever, then there will be no embarrassment.
I’m 18 (female), and I lost my virginity six months ago to a very experienced guy. I was very honest with him from the get-go, and it helped the nerves and everything go away. So when we finally decided to have sex, he KNEW I was a virgin and didn’tknow what the hell I was doing. Since he knew/understood this, I wasn’t nervous, and things turned out better than i’d thought!! We were able to be so comfortable with eachother to the point where I was asking questions and suggesting he teach me/walk me through certain things. Also, he didn’t expect much, so it helped take the pressure off.
You see, if you are honest with the girl you decide to have sex with for the first time, she will be aware and be able to help you and ease the nerves and such. She’ll be able to focus on you and help you through the experience, and the communication between the two of you (like me and my partner) will make the experience not only about sex, but your actual relationship and bring about a whole new meaning to the way you communicate with one another.
hope thishelps.
good luck.
love, Bri.
October 17th, 2009 at 9:00 pm
every ones experiences are different
be confident, considerate, compassionate and honest.
some don’t get even in college….its all a matter of where you looking and what you are willing to learn.
I always told my guy friends, You don’t just look at the “engine” of a fine car….you start at the hood and you gently explore that whole car….and the more you wax and buff (love and gently touch) the entire body, the better the machine runs……Same for woman. don’t honk or beep…that’s not a good way to get a great ride!
October 17th, 2009 at 11:45 pm
if you do find a girl that you’re attracted to and she likes you back then it shouldn’t really be a problem.
sometimes girls like it that you haven’t been with other girls.
they know they have nothing to really worry about.
but then again, they might thing you’re gay.
October 18th, 2009 at 4:47 am
if she loves you and you love her it shouldnt matter.
if she is experienceed then im sure youre smart enough to pick up on a few things after a while
also if its already happened then congrats to taking a giant leap in your relationship
there should be more guys like you out there
October 18th, 2009 at 9:11 am
I’m 21 and I’m skipped first base and went to second base. So who knows she may not be as experience as you may think. Most girls like guys that have not been around the block. She may think your different and its cute. This is coming from a virgin.
October 18th, 2009 at 2:44 pm
most likely she will be “experienced” but if she really likes she so won’t even notice that its your first time but even if it gets ackward and u of u stops if she is really like you will still date (and maybe marriage) after that
October 18th, 2009 at 6:00 pm
I think it;s really sweet! If you tell her this she’ll probably feel really special, that you waited until you found someone WONDERFUl and she was that WONDERFUL girl, rather than with most boys where she is that WILLING girl
October 18th, 2009 at 9:35 pm
Turning the lights down helps a lot – don;t turn them off otherwise you will fumble around too much in the dark
Everybody is nervous their first time After that it just gets MUCH better.
October 18th, 2009 at 10:56 pm
No one can really answer this question. Everyone has a different view and opinion on virgins.
She might find it cute, she might find it sad, she might not care.
Etc.
October 19th, 2009 at 3:30 am
Hah. Just tell her. good luck
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October 19th, 2009 at 7:42 am
Tell her the true.
She might get turn on or really like it that your honest with her.
October 19th, 2009 at 8:25 am
First time for everything… just relax.
October 19th, 2009 at 2:32 pm
if she really cares for you she wouldnt mind and be suportive.
October 19th, 2009 at 8:55 pm
just shut up and go ahead it is just ur 1st time and how wuu be able to know what ur potential is if u never get into 1 donot be disappointed it u score low because practice makes 1 perfect all d best dear
October 20th, 2009 at 1:01 am
I think that’s totally hot that you’re a virgin.
just let her know.
October 20th, 2009 at 6:51 am
Sounds very scary.
October 20th, 2009 at 1:50 pm
If she really loves you, you’ll do just fine in her eyes.
October 20th, 2009 at 3:20 pm
Tell her… she will think its cute!
Good Luck!
October 20th, 2009 at 3:54 pm
girls like virgin boys
October 20th, 2009 at 9:49 pm
lol just tell good luck
October 21st, 2009 at 3:18 am
tell her. But if you are a natural you wont have too
October 21st, 2009 at 4:12 am
I dint know but its a tingly feeling for me
October 21st, 2009 at 6:37 am
i shock
in a that spot
October 21st, 2009 at 1:09 pm
watch movies read a book so u kno what to do so she want notice it