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Do you know what the biggest problem getting in the way of most couples’ sex lives is? You might be surprised by the answer.
It’s stress. Think about it. All day long you’re probably stressing about your job, you’re stressing about the traffic, you’re stressing about your finances, you’re stressing about the kids, then you go home and start stressing about whether you’ll be able to help your partner get off. With all that stress, it’s a miracle you can get an erection at all!
Stress does a lot of damage to our bodies as you probably already know. But besides raising your blood pressure (not in a sexy way), it can also reduce your libido. And that’s not what you or your partner wants. Plus, if she’s feeling overwhelmed by the pressures of life, you’ll have a much harder time getting her to warm up and climax at all.
The combination is simply disappointing sex lives.
But it doesn’t have to be that way. By finding ways to reduce your stress levels (and your partner’s), you’ll be able to find more fulfillment in bed and I know that’s definitely something you’d want.
One way is to practice meditation. You don’t need to learn any complicated positions, although it wouldn’t hurt if you also want to become a little more flexible in the bedroom. All you really need to do is find a comfortable spot, close your eyes, and picture something very comforting. When I’m meditating, I always picture a garden of flowers because that helps me feel good. Don’t picture your significant other while she may make you feel wonderful in lots of ways she’s also probably going to make you feel stressed.
Make sure you can really picture whatever your image is. Make it so real you can feel it, taste it, touch it, and smell it.
You should do this at least once a day for ten minutes or any time you feel particularly stressed. The best part is that you can use a similar exercise to help you get ready for the bedroom. Instead of visualizing something that relaxes you, picture yourself and your partner in the middle of some hot sex and imagine her screaming your name in pleasure. Picturing this will not only rev up your libido, it will also give you more confidence in the bedroom.
Another stress reliever is a warm bath or shower. I could soak for hours in a bubble bath, especially one filled with aromatherapy bubbles. Sure, most people think relaxing in the tub is just for girls but guys can enjoy soaking, too. Just lay back so most of your body is enveloped in the water and close your eyes. The water will feel like warm lips or hands moving softly over your body. It’s an incredibly soothing feeling.
Even better is taking a warm bubble bath with your partner. Both of you can strip naked and crawl under the bubbles with your bodies entwined under the water. You can either face each other or you can have her sit between your legs and lean back against your body. If you’re a smart man and I know you are you’ll choose the latter. Once you’re both relaxed, your hands can start doing some exploration under the bubbles stroking her breasts, running your fingers along her inner thighs, even stimulating her clitoris a little with your finger or a waterproof vibrator. You could even use one of those shower head nozzles to direct water right onto her most sensitive areas if you have one handy. And don’t worry, if she’s half the woman you deserve she’ll return the favor by giving you some special ways of relaxing even more.
After you’ve enjoyed some stress relief in the bathtub, you’ll be ready to go even further in the bedroom. Don’t think about your performance. Don’t think about how long you need to last or anything like that. Concentrate instead on giving her all the pleasure you can. When she’s feeling amazing, you’re going to be feeling amazing.
The best part is that amazing sex and particularly sex that results in orgasms is also a great sex reliever. That means by practicing some of these tips and getting as much great sex from your partner as possible is going to help both of you be happier and healthier in bed, in your relationship, and in life.

Sometimes guys get a bad rap for having nothing on their minds but sex and let’s be honest that’s true in some cases, but if you want to heat things up in your bedroom than the more you’re thinking about getting in on with the partner waiting for you at home the hotter things are going to be between the sheets. And, if you can get HER thinking about what’s to come then you’re in for an awesome amount of fun.
Unlike other animals, humans are lucky enough to have imaginations. We can live whole exciting adventures right inside our minds. And the best part is we can make them feel incredibly real. Think about all of those times you ended up masturbating as a teenager what were you thinking about that got you so hot? A real girl probably didn’t have to be anywhere near you, and you could turned on, right? Well thank your very vivid imagination for that.
Maybe back then, an imagination wasn’t such a good thing, especially if your only outlet for gratification was yourself. But now that you’re all grown up, it’s a whole new ball game.
So here’s how your imagination is going to help you have unforgettable real sex with your partner tonight.
While you’re at work today, close your eyes when no one else is around. Now while your eyes are closed I want you to picture your partner undressing slowly in front of you. You can’t touch her, but she badly wants you to as she takes off each and every piece of clothing she has on then stretches out completely naked on the bed, the couch, the floor, the hood of your car whatever location turns up your heat the highest.
If you don’t start feeling a physical reaction from that little fantasy, I’d be very surprised. But don’t dwell on it and do absolutely nothing about that heart pounding desire rushing through your body. Just fight it enough so you can do your work, but definitely don’t take matters into your own hands if you know what I mean.
A few hours before you head home, close your eyes again. This time picture your partner and you acting out your hottest fantasy. Maybe she’s been speeding, and you’re the stern police office who needs to teach her a lesson. Maybe she’s a stranger you’ve just met in a smoky bar whose name you don’t even know. Maybe you catch her with another sexy woman, and they both ask you to join in. It doesn’t matter what fantasy you have. What matters is that you picture every single detail of that fantasy coming true from the moment you first touch her moist skin, to the second when you penetrate her body, and to those final moments of your climax. Picture it and feel it through your whole entire body.
As soon as you finish your fantasy, call her up on the phone wherever she is. Tell her in the most provocative way you can what you want to do to her when you get home. Describe how you want to touch her, what positions you want to try, and more. You don’t have to share the details of your fantasy with her but do share with her everything you can think of about the reality you want to share with her soon.
From the time you leave work until you reach home (or her house), don’t stop thinking about that fantasy but absolutely keep your hands off yourself. It’s going to be very hard to resist since you’re going to be incredibly horny by this time, but the pay off is going to be well worth all of your self-control.
When you see her, don’t hesitate. Just start doing exactly what you promised her on the phone. Depending on your partner, she may or may not already be ready for you. Some women fantasize about their men all day long, and your call may have been just enough to get her all heated up, too. If not, then now is the time to dazzle her with your incredible foreplay skills. But don’t forget to keep talking dirty to her and telling her how much you’ve been wanting her all day. That’s sure to get her just as hot as you are.
Then, well, then I think you know what to do next. If not, just think back to your earlier fantasy and follow its lead.

Tired of stupid sitcoms that depict every man as an insensitive jerk towards the women in their lives? In truth most men love and cherish their women. They want nothing more than to give those special girls the ecstasy they so richly deserve. Contrary to everything we’ve ever been told most women want nothing more than to have their worlds rocked by the men in their lives. And when I say “rocked” I’m not talking about romance. It’s true that romance is the way to a women’s heart. But we’ve all known a woman who truly loved a man and yet chose to run off with a bad boy because of how he made her feel in bed. Do you want that to happen to you? Of course not! We hear all the time that “sex is not all that important to a relationship” “It’s just sex.” No one would dare say “It’s just affection.” “There’s no need for communication in a relationship.” “Who needs money? We can live off pure love.”

Naked lust is just as important—if not more so—than romance, companionship, love, finance, or trust in any romantic relationship. Don’t ever let anyone tell you different. Look in the mirror and say whatever you need to convince yourself of the truth of what I’m about to reveal. Are you ready? Every woman one would be proud to take home to Mama, in her heart of secret hearts, longs to be that girl a body would love to take home to Papa, if only for a moment. BURN THAT INTO YOUR MEMORY IF YOU DO NOTHING ELSE!

Now ask yourself, if there were a way to unlock the primal passion of a woman and simultaneously join her in the ecstatic embrace of unbridled sexuality, WOULDN’T YOU JUST HAVE TO DO THAT? Wouldn’t that be the right thing to do? To have respect for her needs? To have respect for your own desires? And what if you could ratchet up your own levels of sexual excitement, prowess, and payoff to match your woman’s newfound lust fulfillment, and in doing so make yourself a STALLION in her eyes. Wouldn’t you absolutely require that information? But of course you would.

Here’s the truth that will set you free. There are only 3 things you need to learn to jack up your performance level to where you can lead your woman into the Promised Land: 1) learn to activate a woman’s primary and secondary erogenous zones 2) become aware of the full powers and capabilities of the penis 3) discover the “spank and caress” method of talking dirty to her. Do these things and she will never cheat on you or leave you. And she’ll come to trust you enough to do almost anything you wish.

Step 1.Today we’ll be covering step 1 to driving your woman wild. Check back here later for more information on steps 2 & 3, or see the links at the end of this article. Women have two kinds of erogenous zones, primary and secondary. Primary erogenous zones are the ones everyone is familiar with: Mouth, nipples, breasts, buttocks, and genitals. These zones provide the way to incredible pleasure for a woman if properly stimulated. However, most people are unaware that in order to properly stimulate a woman’s primaries first her secondary erogenous zones must reach maximum arousal. THIS IS WHY WOMEN REQUIRE FOREPLAY TO BECOME HIGHLY AROUSED. A woman’s secondary erogenous zones are: the nape of the neck, the small of the back, inside wrists, inside elbows, back of knees, thighs, and feet. It is important to stimulate some or all of the secondary zones for fifteen to twenty minutes before any stimulation of the primary zones. DOING SO LEADS TO HEIGHTENED LEVELS OF AROUSAL.

To make this easy, combine food with foreplay. Remember proper attention must be paid to hygiene. You should have already have bathed yourself before you begin. Do whatever you do that gets her to agree to sex. Then tell her you’d like to try something a little different tonight. Assure that her needs are paramount and tonight she will be catered to and pampered like never before. Your ego may not wish to do this but I assure you that if you do you will have better sex than you can possibly imagine. Blindfold her. If you have reassured her properly she will agree to it. Carry her to the bathroom and bathe her slowly but thoroughly. ASK her how she wishes to be touched at every step. Be gentle but firm. It should take no less than 20 minutes to bathe her properly, the longer the better.

Remove her from the tub and carry her to the bedroom or preferably the kitchen if there’s room to lay her down on a large flat surface. If you use the kitchen countertop, cover it with a beach towel or something soft and warm. Lay her down. Have your favorite toppings ready. Cake icings work well; so do chocolate toppers like Magic Shell or Hershey’s. Butterscotch, caramel, and strawberry ice cream toppings are a must have. Use whichever YOU prefer. Tell her what you do right before you do it. Proceed to strategically place your toppings on the secondary zones that are hairless. Lick off. Rinse with wet towel and repeat. By the time you finish the second round if you took your time she will literally be quivering with delight.

At this time your usual stimulation of the primaries should work well. If you are clumsy at this as well, recall that episode of “Friends” where Courtney Cox describes how to properly stimulate a woman’s seven primary erogenous zones. The key here is mixing it up and dragging it out. Kiss. Fondle breasts. Tweak nipples. Kiss. Fondle buttocks. Kiss. Nipples… breasts… kiss… nipples… buttocks… nipples… etc. Alternate and move very slowly. Torture her with the promise of her own orgasm. Food also can be used here if you still have enough toppings left as you should.

When you reach the genitals, place your lips around the clitoris and apply steady suction like a suction cup. There should be enough room to freely lick firmly around the clitoris in a clockwise motion. This will bring her to a powerful orgasm very quickly so go as slowly as you can stand it. Afterwards, her primaries may become extremely sensitive so cease stimulation. Return to stimulation of secondary zones to reboot her arousal faster. Pause, rinse, repeat. At this point if done properly she will be blubbering, quaking, or otherwise eating out of your hand.

Check back with the author later for steps 2 and 3. But if you’re in too much of a hurry, check out the links below for more tips on pleasing a woman.